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Possessiveness problem

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Mukilnila

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Hi... Help me to sort out my problem....
I'm possessive on my friend...
I'm feeling that I'm not giving him space.... But, if he is available I'm keep on speaking to him about something always.. Recently, he is spending time with his friend... I'm hurting him often by words.... I have to concentrate on other works I think, but if I get time I'm texting him.. I want some solution to overcome this possessiveness towards him...
 




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Hi... Help me to sort out my problem....
I'm possessive on my friend...
I'm feeling that I'm not giving him space.... But, if he is available I'm keep on speaking to him about something always.. Recently, he is spending time with his friend... I'm hurting him often by words.... I have to concentrate on other works I think, but if I get time I'm texting him.. I want some solution to overcome this possessiveness towards him...
Hi Nila ...
First of all nila don't worry it is not a big problem so relax we can solve it ... Nila u have to understand one thing In all relationship personal space between individuals are very much necessary ... Try to understand his situation may be he want his personal space , give him some time till then stay silent, let him come and talk to u ... see dear getting angry or throwing words on him won't solve your issue it will hurt u more ...if u comfortable better talk to him and tell him ur issues ... nila try to be an independent individual , don't dependent too much on anyone, always remember one thing relations are passing clouds but only ur individuality will be remain with u forever ... so be confident trust your ability make ur precious time in a precious way ...

Have a good day Nila !!
 




Mukilnila

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Hi Nila ...
First of all nila don't worry it is not a big problem so relax we can solve it ... Nila u have to understand one thing In all relationship personal space between individuals are very much necessary ... Try to understand his situation may be he want his personal space , give him some time till then stay silent, let him come and talk to u ... see dear getting angry or throwing words on him won't solve your issue it will hurt u more ...if u comfortable better talk to him and tell him ur issues ... nila try to be an independent individual , don't dependent too much on anyone, always remember one thing relations are passing clouds but only ur individuality will be remain with u forever ... so be confident trust your ability make ur precious time in a precious way ...

Have a good day Nila !!
Thank you so much dear...
Hi Nila ...
First of all nila don't worry it is not a big problem so relax we can solve it ... Nila u have to understand one thing In all relationship personal space between individuals are very much necessary ... Try to understand his situation may be he want his personal space , give him some time till then stay silent, let him come and talk to u ... see dear getting angry or throwing words on him won't solve your issue it will hurt u more ...if u comfortable better talk to him and tell him ur issues ... nila try to be an independent individual , don't dependent too much on anyone, always remember one thing relations are passing clouds but only ur individuality will be remain with u forever ... so be confident trust your ability make ur precious time in a precious way ...

Have a good day Nila !!
Thank you so much dear.....
Even though I know all these things, if someone guide me it makes me to understand well...
Thank you so much dear... 🥺🥺🥺Thanks a lot
 




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Hi. This is not a big issue and all of us facing this - being possessive or being target to the possessiveness. Ellaeayum vida nerukama sollapadra relationship husband and wife kullaye there should be some space for their own personal, harmless habits. Indha maadhiri if u r being targeted by possessiveness adhuvum anbungara perla how will you feel. Andha suffering aduthavangaluku koduka koodadhunu yosinga. Idhaye saaka vechu friendship cut aana enna pannuvaanga. Idhu nadaka chance irukunu daan solren. Venum venamnu vittu poradhu irukave iruku. There should be balance pa. Ungaluku andha friendkita irukara comfort feel neenga kodukareengala avangaluku. Ella pakkamume yosinga pa.
 




Mukilnila

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Hi. This is not a big issue and all of us facing this - being possessive or being target to the possessiveness. Ellaeayum vida nerukama sollapadra relationship husband and wife kullaye there should be some space for their own personal, harmless habits. Indha maadhiri if u r being targeted by possessiveness adhuvum anbungara perla how will you feel. Andha suffering aduthavangaluku koduka koodadhunu yosinga. Idhaye saaka vechu friendship cut aana enna pannuvaanga. Idhu nadaka chance irukunu daan solren. Venum venamnu vittu poradhu irukave iruku. There should be balance pa. Ungaluku andha friendkita irukara comfort feel neenga kodukareengala avangaluku. Ella pakkamume yosinga pa.
Sure Jillu.. Thanks for ur comments
 




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Hi Nila ...
First of all nila don't worry it is not a big problem so relax we can solve it ... Nila u have to understand one thing In all relationship personal space between individuals are very much necessary ... Try to understand his situation may be he want his personal space , give him some time till then stay silent, let him come and talk to u ... see dear getting angry or throwing words on him won't solve your issue it will hurt u more ...if u comfortable better talk to him and tell him ur issues ... nila try to be an independent individual , don't dependent too much on anyone, always remember one thing relations are passing clouds but only ur individuality will be remain with u forever ... so be confident trust your ability make ur precious time in a precious way ...

Have a good day Nila !!
 




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